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LECTURE presented at Youngstown State
University, Youngstown, Ohio
FEBRUARY, 2002
Good Morning. Some of these news items will be familiar to you.
Jonestown, Guyana, South America. November 18, 1978 - 914 men,
women and children committed suicide at the gunpoint of their
peers by drinking poison Kool-Aide. They believed that the end of
the world by nuclear war was imminent and that if they all died
together, they would travel to another planet and live in a
blissful utopia. On that terrible day, many parents injected
cyanide down the throats of their infant children.
Waco, Texas. April 19, 1993 - 75
members (including 21 children) of the Branch Davidian religious
sect led by David Koresh burned themselves to death rather than
surrender to FBI agents who were seeking entrance to their
communal compound. A doomsday cult, they believed that the world
would end in 1995.
San Diego County, CA. March 26,
1997 - 39 members of the Heaven's Gate cult committed suicide with
poison and drugs in three groups on three successive days,
following the instructions of their leader, Marshall Applewhite.
Marshall had convinced his followers that his soul had at one time
occupied the body of Jesus Christ and had returned to Earth in
1920 on a UFO spaceship. He believed that the arrival of the Hale-Bopp
comet was the signal to exit their earthly bodies (or "containers"
as they called them). Behind the comet another UFO spaceship was
hidden. It housed new "containers" for their souls and would carry
them to a higher spiritual plane where they could live a life free
from human evil.
Manhattan, New York City.
September 11, 2001 - more than 3000 people were killed when two
planes hit the World Trade Center, causing both buildings to fall
to the ground. Osama Bin Laden and the Al Qaeda believe that our
free world culture is degenerate and immoral. Bin Laden is
convinced that he has a divine right from God to impose his will
on others. His terrorist act was performed in God's name - to
cleanse the world of sin.
Every day, people commit inhuman
and atrocious crimes against themselves, their children and
innocent bystanders in the name of their belief systems - beliefs
which were often inculcated into unsuspecting minds without
permission. The use of mind control techniques to create a fanatic
who is willing to die for his mission is the same in any cult. In
fact, many former members of destructive cults, including myself,
will tell you that they felt willing to sacrifice their lives for
their cause or leader. Usually, cult members are brainwashed to
believe that they are specially chosen by God and will receive
special distinction in heaven upon completion of their mission.
Thus, to them, dying is an honor and a goal, not a horror.
Most people have heard about cults
but few truly understand what they are, and especially how
everyday ordinary people - intelligent, normal, sane people like
you and me, can become involved in a genuine, bona fide cult
without having any idea what has befallen them.
I am here today to enlighten you
and I am very well qualified, because I was involved in a cult for
almost 20 years. It all began my freshman year at Swarthmore
college in 1977. Back then I only cared about one thing - I was a
premed and on my way to a future career as a psychiatrist or
pediatrician. I had been dreaming about this since I was 8 years
old. The picture was very fixed in my mind - a beautiful house in
the suburbs, a husband who shared a similar career, a couple of
great kids - the whole white picket fence scene. As you might be
guessing already, nothing turned out the way I had planned.
Right before I went to college, my
mother started biofeedback treatments for stress reduction in the
office of a Manhattan psychologist. This was all very clinical and
above board. This psychologist had an assistant whose
responsibility it was to hook her up to the biofeedback machine
and lead her through relaxation exercises. This man had some very
radical views about life and he began to share them with her. My
mother became fascinated with him and soon scheduled sessions for
me as well. He was passionate and charismatic and over the next
three years he managed to convince me, my mother and a few other
women that he had special powers and exclusive spiritual
knowledge. His claim was that social training keeps our true
spirits in jail. In order to experience freedom and growth we must
"break social barriers". One of our major hang ups, he claimed,
was shame over our naked bodies. To overcome this, he began
sitting naked during patient sessions when the psychologist was
out of the office and encouraged us to do the same. I felt
extremely uncomfortable but his logic kind of made sense to me,
and in the doctor's office, he was the authority figure, so
against my feelings, I complied; so did my mother and several
other women. A lot of our time was spent staring into his eyes for
half an hour at a time, without blinking or speaking. He also
shook his head from side to side, rapidly, claiming that he was
generating a special "Energy". He convinced us that he was
the only person in the history of the entire human race who could
access and release this unique energy force - this energy was the
only thing that could make us truly alive and without it we would
die.
Eventually, his boss found out
about the nudity and fired him and he began using my mother's
Manhattan apartment to hold group meetings and private sessions.
By this time I had graduated college with a BA in biochemistry.
Unfortunately, he had managed to convince me that his way would be
more fruitful than pursuing a career in medicine. I dropped my
lifelong plans and became more deeply involved with him instead.
By the way, this man bills himself as a "Stress Reduction
Therapist" and holds no license of any kind, not even a college
degree.
I was assigned to live with a male
member of his group who was to be my spouse in the spiritual
plane. There were two group meetings per week and as many
individual sessions as you could afford to pay for. All told, he
eventually got over $200,000 out of me - an inheritance from my
father - and when I finally left the group at the age of 37, I was
at the edge of personal bankruptcy and deeply in debt.
George (that's the guru's name)
encouraged us to give up our friends and family. Because they did
not follow him, they were part of a dead world - robots who lived
empty lives and were doomed for misery and death. To shut the door
on my previous, unenlightened life, I threw out all of my old
photographs from childhood, my college yearbooks, textbooks and
notes, my diploma, anything that would connect me personally to my
pre-George days. I ceased to contact relatives and friends I had
been close with growing up. The Group - as we called ourselves -
became my entire world. For several years sex and staring at
George shake his head were our major activities. The sex only went
one way, the women served him (and then paid him for the
privilege). In between our sessions with him we worked so that we
could afford to continue to see him. I tutored high school
chemistry part time and in 1988, opened a photography studio. I
still wanted to pursue good things for myself - a graduate degree,
marriage and children. But I wasn't building a life for myself at
all. Instead, my whole existence was focused on being a soldier
for the cause - to bring The Truth to the world and save mankind.
In my mind I believed I had no alternative, that's why I didn't
leave, but I was terribly unhappy and began to experience severe,
suicidal depression and debilitating asthma. George told me that
the asthma was my fault, because I wasn't trying hard enough to
follow his energy. He forbade me to go to a doctor and instead
suggested that I try shaking my head. "The energy cures
everything, even cancer," he explained, but it's your
responsibility to obey it.
George believed that he could
enlighten and control people simply by touching them. In 1992, he
decided it was time to influence the political system. That
year, our entire group of about 20 people joined Ross Perot's
United We Stand America. Through that organization we personally
met with NJ Governors Florio and Whitman and several other
senators and state representatives. George shook his head at every
meeting in order to inject his energy into those politicians.
I left the group in 1997 for a
number of reasons. The most obvious was that I ran out of money
and could no longer afford to attend sessions. But even before
that, I started looking for an exit . . .
In 1994, his dog, a black labrador
named Ben, died. George missed the dog so much, that after burying
it in the backyard, he decided to bring it back through
resurrection. We all dug it up one Saturday afternoon and George
placed it on a wooden board on his lap. He shook his head
furiously, attempting to inject his energy into Ben and bring him
back to life. For months we stared at the rotting carcass while it
oozed blood and was devoured by maggots. We trained ourselves to
tolerate the nauseating smell, and we continued to pay him - $40
an hour. He claimed that Ben was the true messiah - after all
"dog" is "god" spelled backwards.
And me? I had spent 16 years
trying to be a good student, going along with every twist and turn
he concocted, but I couldn't swallow this one. The day he dug up
that dog was the day I woke up and began looking for the keys to
open my jail cell.
Getting out was a lot harder than
going in. I had always had conflict about The Group but there was
one thought which had been burned into my brain, and that was the
belief that if I left my life would be pointless and worthless -
that without George's energy I would die. This ridiculous lie
served as an electric fence, keeping me from believing that any
alternative to my current circumstances existed. In other
words, I truly believed that I had no choice but endure whatever
was going on in our circle, no matter what.
You're probably wondering how I
did manage to get out and the details are too intense to cover in
the short time we have together, but the whole key was the
presence of an outside person, unbrainwashed by George's insane
fantasy world, who could gain my trust. A person who could
intelligently expose the contradictions in his claims and support
me emotionally when he attacked me (which was often). A person who
cared about my greater good, not about controlling and possessing
me. Most people leave a cult when a concerned parent, sibling or
spouse intervenes and makes the effort to wake up their loved one
to the lie they are following and the damage they have suffered.
From 1977 until 1993, I had no one to do that for me. But it all
changed when our group joined Ross Perot's United We Stand America
and I met Judy, who is standing next to me. She is the one
who helped me gain my freedom. It took three years and hundreds of
hours of conversation for me to cross over from insanity to sanity
- to win back my mind. And Judy worked only from instinct
(and love). She has no formal training in psychology. In fact, at
the time, she was selling real estate! If you want to call that a
miracle, I would agree with you.
Now, I'm sure you're all sitting
here thinking, "That's a really weird story. But, it would never
happen to me. I'm too smart to believe or do anything so crazy."
And you're right. What happened to me will never happen to you.
Each person walks a unique path in life. However, many of you will
experience mind control in your lifetimes. You will be seduced,
exploited, oppressed, abused, manipulated or controlled by another
person or group or ideology. You will suffer greatly and lose much
until you can find a way to break the ties that bind you. We hope
that what you learn today about the human weaknesses which make a
person vulnerable to cult recruitment may help you one day when
the world presents you with a challenge that you didn't expect.
Every day people join bowling
leagues, school boards, or photography clubs. They attend
meetings at local churches. Some volunteer for the Peace Corps or
Salvation Army. But why would a "normal" person join a cult? Why
would they choose to abandon family and familiar surroundings in
order to pursue a life filled with deprivation - one which
sometimes ultimately leads to a painful and violent death? The
answer is, that when it comes to a cult, most new members are
manipulated, deceived and coerced into joining. The group is
usually so skilled at recruitment that the person believes he is
making a free choice, while in reality he is being led like a lamb
to slaughter. The public is generally unaware of which groups are
cults and the actual damage they do to their members, because
cults hide behind a mask of benign charitability in order to lure
their victims into their circle of influence. And they operate
from behind a veil of secrecy. As one former cult member put it,
"If I had known I would be pushed to divorce my wife, sell my
business, turn over all of my money to the leadership, live on 3
hours of sleep per night, alienate all of my friends, chant 6
hours a day, start hallucinating, never watch TV, read a book or
newspaper, stop celebrating holidays with my family, share a
bathroom with ten other roommates in a communal apartment, sleep
on a mattress on the floor, eat only rice three times a day, fast
7 days every month and develop diabetes from prolonged inadequate
diet - I might have thought twice before attending their
meetings."
And cults do not just collect
citizens at random through seminars in church basements or
home-based bible readings. Some weald tremendous financial
resources to manipulate our political system and gain credibility.
One well-known Korean spiritual leader, Reverend Moon, has paid
fees close to one million dollars per appearance to ex-presidents
Gerald Ford and George Bush to speak at his events. Moon has
consistently asserted that he is the rebirth of Jesus Christ and
only those who receive his blessing will go to heaven. The rest of
us are destined for hell. Moon owns the Washington Times Newspaper
and has great influence among capitol hill republicans. He
operates through (and hides behind) several hundred front
organizations which sport such socially responsible titles as the
"Family Federation for World Peace".
One great resource for potential
recruits is the college campus of any public university. "Today's
campus has been characterized as a "spiritual supermarket".
Thousands of predatory cults promise students universal cures,
unqualified happiness, guaranteed salvation and magically-attained
wealth. These groups pressure students to abandon their families,
friends and futures in order to follow an individual who claims to
have discovered the path to perfection. College campuses are the
chief recruiting centers of many large, well-organized destructive
cults. Virtually every campus in the country is visited by these
groups.
The first questions to ask are,
"What are destructive cults" and "What is being destroyed?" A
destructive cult is a group which deceives potential recruits into
believing that it is something it is not - perhaps a group with
lofty charitable goals such as achieving world peace or stamping
out world hunger. The group then pressures and isolates the
recruit from familiar guideposts; while introducing a
revolutionary doctrine (according to the group) which it claims
can solve all of your problems. The group influences the new
member to absorb this doctrine by wearing them down through a
carefully organized system of marathon sessions; manipulation of
social programming (such as the need to be liked, the inability to
say "no" under pressure, and the desire to appear open-minded);
and love-bombing (showering the person with praise and interest)
to the point where simplistic black and white superficialities
appear to be profound utterances of truth. What is being
destroyed? The ability to think critically and make choices.
What is a cult? The word "cult" comes from the Latin world "cultus"
meaning worship or adoration. A cult is a group of people which
holds a unique, self-contained and socially deviant
spiritual/religious doctrine. It is a group movement exhibiting
excessive devotion to a person or mission and employing
unethically manipulative techniques of persuasion and control
designed to advance the goals of the group's leader(s), to the
actual or possible detriment of the members, their families and
the community. A cult is a group which violates the human rights
of its members and harms them through abusive techniques of mind
control. It distinguishes itself from a normal social or religious
group by subjecting its members to physical, mental or financial
deprivation and deception to keep them in the group.
Cult leaders are commonly self-appointed, persuasive, charismatic,
domineering and relentless. They claim special knowledge; unique,
sometimes supernatural powers and a special mission in life. They
center veneration on themselves.
Cults generally are exclusive and
authoritarian, zealous and extreme in their world view; use mind
control, intimidation tactics or brainwashing to control their
members; demand total, unquestioning compliance; require members
to change their lifestyle; have a double set of ethics for
subjects and leaders.
Facts and Statistics
- There are cults all over the
globe.
- There are over 3,000 known
cults in the United States, with new ones forming all the time.
- Their sizes may range from 1
member to hundreds of thousands.
- Millions of people are affected
by cults. Not only members but also their families, spouses and
friends.
- Approximately 180,000 people
get recruited into cults each year.
- Most large, organized cults
recruit on college campuses.
Cults fall into diverse
categories
- Religious Cults: The leader is
seen by those in the cult as a god or one who has a direct and
unique relationship with God. Only he/she can interpret God's
word. Group members are usually taught to define the world in
terms of an imminent Armageddon. Only group members will be
saved; while non-believers will perish.
- Therapy Cults: Here the leader
is worshipped because he has reached some ill-defined point of
psychological perfection. The goal is to be cured of hang-ups,
and resistance to self-actualization.
- Political Cults: In these
groups, the leader has perfect political doctrine. He has
discovered some great truth and the world will soon discover
that his path is the only one to follow. Those who are
enlightened early will be in the vanguard of the movement as it
inevitably sweeps the world.
- Economic Cults: Here the appeal
is material success. By abandoning one's plans and following the
leader, the member is promised a future fortune.
- Satanic Cults: These groups
promote the worship of evil, demons and Satan. They sometimes
engage in bizarre rituals which involve sex, scarification or
even murder of innocent children.
Cults exhibit similar
psychological patterns . . .
- closed-mindedness (not
interested in rational evaluation of facts)
- consent blindly to authority
(leader's dogma is supreme)
- controlled living (details of
daily life are directed/dictated)
- controlled thinking (doctrine
serves as frame of reference against which motives and actions are
measured/justified/rationalized)
- contempt for outsiders (other
people "just don't get it")
Manipulation by Cult Leaders
- They present themselves as
infallible authorities, requiring absolute loyalty.
- They persuade with strong,
confident, charismatic personalities.
- They prohibit individual
freedom, expecting unquestioned obedience.
- They promote themselves as
divine, a messiah. They claim to possess new truth which promises enlightenment
to followers.
- They promise a cure-all via
their doctrine. "Your ship has come in...This magic bullet will solve all of
your problems."
Oppressed State of Cult Followers
- They follow the cult
leader blindly.
- They forfeit individual
freedom, rational/critical thought, natural curiosity/learning/maturation
process.
- They forego reason for
emotions.
- They forsake friends and family
for their new family.
- They feel
misunderstood/persecuted by the outside world. They live in a substitute reality created by the
leader.
- They fear punishment for not
conforming to legalistic rules.
Who is vulnerable to becoming
involved with a destructive cult?
EVERYONE - including those who
believe they are too intelligent or strong-willed to be recruited!
WHEN? - during transition times
- the first year away from the
family home
- a change or loss of job
- a year "off" or after
graduation
- a sudden illness, accident or
death
- the break-up of a significant
relationship
- traveling or on vacation
- a change in life-style or
homeland
- during time of loneliness or
isolation
- while wrestling with an
addiction (food, alcohol, drugs etc.)
WHERE?
- on campus: dorms, student
unions, outside counseling centers, cafeteria etc.
- at a conference,
self-improvement seminar, stress-reduction class or training session
- in high schools, on the street
corner, in front of a library or post office, on a military base, in your office
(solicitations to feed the hungry, fight drugs, help the homeless, promote peace, save
the environment)
- in religious organizations and
hospitals
- at a dance, party, fast-food
restaurant, sports event, concert or weekend retreat
- through co-workers or business
associates
- in your own home through
service people, child care workers, housekeepers etc.
BY WHOM?
- The friendliest, most likable
person you have ever met.
- A person too interested in
getting to know you better.
- Someone who thinks you are
wonderful and knows that you have money, connections, influence, talent
etc.
- Someone who has all the answers
for you.
Harmful effects of Cult
Involvement . . .
- Loss of control over one's life
and the ability to make choices
- Not permitted to question,
analyze or criticize
- Emotional and psychological
growth arrested - a return to child-like behavior and extreme dependency
- Required secrecy about
activities from family and friends
- Loss of spontaneity or sense of
humor
- Not permitted to form intimate
relationships with people outside of the group
-
Physical
deterioration and abuse
- Psychological deterioration
(including anxiety, disorientation, paranoia, dissociation and hallucination)
- Mandatory servitude and
exploitation
"On the Spot" exercise to expose
your vulnerability to being manipulated and/or controlled. Have you ever....
- Bought something under the
influence of a salesperson, taken it home and then realized you didn't want it?
- Agreed to something in a
discussion or argument that you didn't believe in?
- Accepted a drink, drug or food
when you didn't really want to?
- Made a decision under pressure
from others which you later regretted?
- Been manipulated with fear,
obligation, guilt or faulty logic to do something you didn't really want to do?
Now answer....
- Why did you do this?
- What action leading up to the
event influenced your decision?
- Who were you with and how did
the person or persons influence you? Did they have leverage over you? What
type?
- What was the feeling you had
right before you gave in?
- What was the vulnerability in
you which caused you to ignore your intuition in the moment when you made your
decision?
Why do cults focus recruitment
efforts on college campuses?
- Many students are away from
home and parental authority for the first time.
- College students have limited
life experience and are often more idealistic than practical. They are just
beginning to seek a personal identity - something other than "I am my parents'
child." Becoming a member of a movement with lofty goals is particularly
appealing.
- They may be feeling insecure,
lonely and vulnerable. The cult offers a sense of family and acceptance.
- The cult offers authority and
structure which is familiar to the student while simultaneously presenting them
with an important mission which will award them instant significance.
- College students generally have
unscheduled leisure time and the opportunity to experiment with different
lifestyle options as a method of determining what suits them.
- They have assets to offer the
cult: youth, energy, enthusiasm, intelligence, talent; and they are hard workers.
- They have not yet developed the
adult obligations which would preclude them from making a commitment to
the cult - children, spouse, career, mortgage etc.
The Benevolent Front.
The process which leads a recruit
into a destructive group is usually accomplished off-campus, in a new environment.
Cults hide their true natures while luring you. The hook which leads the
individual to enter this environment is often conventional and mild. It speaks to common
desires to meet new people or hear new ideas. Some opening lines might include:
- "Would you be interested in
helping to bring love and unity to mankind? Join us for a free dinner and discussion group
about world hunger and world peace."
- "You can reach your true, inner
potential by attending this course on self- awareness."
"This seminar will teach you a new
technique for handling stress."
- "Come to one of our meetings. It
will show you a new direction. I can't explain it because it is so profound that you
have to experience it to understand."
- "The seminar leader is incredible.
You've never met anyone so powerful, intelligent and brilliant. He can inspire
anyone to do great things."
However, once the individual has
entered cult turf, he is lectured, cajoled, infantilized and undermined. He is
pressured to agree that the state of the world, or his own personal condition, is
undesirable. Then, the group will claim that they have the perfect solution to the
problem.
Recruitment Methods:
1. Casual Contact. Because
conversion is an attack on one's emotions, not the intellect, recruiters are taught
to target students who are emotionally vulnerable.
They have been known to:
- a. station themselves at
university counseling centers
- b. wander the corridors of
residence halls to find students who seem lonely
- c. loiter at libraries looking
from students reading books on social topics which might give them an
opening to discuss such lofty ideals as saving the world
- d. approach students who have
recently ended a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend
2. Street-Corner Evangelism. This
consists of soap-box lectures on the street aimed at attracting students who
would like to be committed to some worthy cause. The intent is to
invite the student to a meeting or retreat in order to discuss the topic in more
depth. Missions may include Bible Study, World Peace or curing World
Hunger.
3. The Cult Group has achieved
recognition from the university as a student organization. The First Amendment
(freedom of speech and religious expression) leaves Public
universities with limited criteria by which they can legally deny recognition to a
group seeking to affiliate. In order to do so they would have to
prove one of the following (and it's difficult to do this)
(1) The group advocates lawless
action and has the means to carry it out.
(2) The group refuses to follow the
reasonable rules of the university or the law.
(3) The group engages in acts
which disrupt the university or are unlawful.
Although university recognition
does not indicate approval, it may imply university acceptance to the
potential recruit. Incidentally, mind control, deceptive persuasion and
brainwashing are not against the law.
How recruiters work.
- They are usually trained.
They are often well-groomed,
physically attractive, amicable and charming.
They will use your name
frequently to send you the silent message that they know you well and have a personal
interest in you.
They will ask personal
questions.
They can deliver a prepared
response for every one of your questions or challenges.
They will lie when necessary
to further their cause.
They will speak quickly,
confidently and passionately yet not fully answer your questions.
They will present "either/or"
dilemmas to push you into a corner where disagreeing with them is the
"wrong" answer. Such as, "If you care about helping the hungry then you will
agree to come to our meeting tonight." Implying that if you refuse their
invitation, then you don't care about the hungry.
They feel entitled to tell
you what's missing in your life and what you need to do to fix this problem.
They are the smiliest,
friendliest, pushiest person you have ever met, and they won't take no for an answer.
What are some techniques
recruiters may use to convince you to trust them?
- Figure out what you want to
hear and then tell it to you with sincerity.
- Make you laugh.
- Agree with you no matter what
you say.
- Match your pace of speech,
physical movement and vocabulary level. (They are sending a silent message that
they are the same as you are. (NLP) People tend to trust others who they
perceive to be like themselves.)
- Find out what's nearest and
dearest to your heart and show enthusiasm about it. (Black widow movie -
seducing the professor of entomology.)
Why do people respond to cult
recruitment?
1. Most people are looking to fill
three basic emotional/spiritual needs: love, significance, security
- cult supplies sense of family,
community and group support - "I feel like I belong in this
group; I fit, and they accept me for who I am." Recruits are told, "We are
your new family or your true friends."
- focused group activities
provide spiritual sense of purpose/significance - "I feel like my life now has
meaning and direction."
- faithful followers are rewarded
with approval (only conditional acceptance is available but this
can be misinterpreted for real love)
- You are told, "You're coming
along very well; You're starting to get it."
- There may be a hierarchical
ladder available for climbing.
2. There are immediate emotional
rewards.
- The ego is inflated from
exclusive inner-circle membership (The Chosen People).
- Controlled environment.
Structured schedule, thoughts and goals. You give up responsibility for
decision making. No mistakes - no anxiety. It is part of human nature to hope
that someone else can lift the burden of responsibility from our
shoulders and make decisions for us.
3. In the beginning, you feel so
good ... it must be the right decision. Pleasure surges while you experience
intense feelings of attraction to the group during your "honeymoon period". Thoughts
titillate you such as:
- My new life will be wonderful.
- The leader is the perfect man
and I am so lucky to know him.
- This group has found the
answers to solve all of my problems, and the world's. Anyone who is willing to
dedicate themselves to do the necessary work, to come to
understand our secret formula, will have guaranteed success, just like I
will.
- Now I have a group of friends
and I fit it.
Who can be fooled?
ANYONE - given the right
circumstances which speak to their needs and take advantage of their emotional
vulnerabilities.
Limiting Choices
A door-to-door encyclopedia
salesman rings a bell in a middle-class neighborhood. (Many, many years
before the internet and encyclopedias on CD-Rom for $10!) A young housewife
hesitantly opens the door. The salesman begins his spiel.
"Ma'am, this encyclopedia set is a
wonderful tool which will benefit your children all during their school
years."
She shifts nervously from foot to
foot, wishing she could get rid of him but not wanting to appear rude. He
continues his fast-talking,
"Now, I know you're thinking it's
too expensive and you can't afford it, so I'm going to ask you a favor -
just allow me to explain fully the benefits of these wonderful books and our customized
payment options which make them affordable on any budget. At the end of my
presentation, all you have to do is say "yes" or "no". That's all I ask. Now that's
fair, isn't it?"
The housewife answers hesitantly,
"Well, I guess so. As long as I'm under no obligation to buy anything."
"Absolutely no obligation
whatsoever, ma'am. Like I just said, I only want a chance to introduce you to our
fine product line. I have a sales contract here in my briefcase. If after I've explained
everything to you, you decide you want to own our excellent products, I'll fill it
out, you can sign it, and they'll be on their way to you first thing tomorrow morning. On
the other hand, if after you fully understand what my company has to offer, you
decide these certified learning materials can not help your children in their education,
I'm out the door as if I had never been here. A yes or no answer is all that's
needed."
"All right then."
The salesman's request sounds fair
but it's not. In the beginning of the interaction he set up the ground
rules. He limited her choices to a. yes and b. no. What she didn't realize was that
there is another choice, choice c. none of the above, in this case - I'll sleep
on it and call you tomorrow if I'm interested. By removing this choice without her
even realizing it, he increases the pressure. If he is a good salesman, he can influence
her to feel like she wants his product. It is like casting a spell. Under his spell
she will desire the product and therefore choose option a - yes. Even if she is
concerned about cost (an entire set of encyclopedias cost about $300 back in the late
sixties and was usually bought on time, one volume per month) two things will
stop her from refusing the offer. The first is the temporary spell he has cast over
her (I'm sure we've all experienced buyer's remorse when we've spend too much
money on something we can't afford because of an enticing feeling
while we were in the store, or flattery from the salesperson.) and the second is
that after he has invested, let's say thirty minutes, in his presentation, there is a
good chance that his prospect will feel obligated to say yes, especially if the two
people have bonded emotionally by exchanging personal chit-chat. It's how we
are trained socially. We want to appear like nice people. The salesman uses these
social rules to manipulate his prospects and benefit himself. In addition, we
are generally afraid of making someone mad at us by opposing them (saying no). We
don't know how to say no without feeling guilty. When we don't want to buy
something we lie and say we'll think about it to avoid those bad feelings. But the sales
man has taken away this escape route. So, many people, fearing that if they don't
cooperate, the salesman will disapprove and reject them emotionally, will say yes to
avoid the guilt, anxiety and fear they'd experience if they said what they really
felt, "I'm not interested."
Establishing Authority by Setting
up THE RULES
1. Two Jehovah's Witnesses ring
your doorbell. When you answer, they hand you a pamphlet and begin
talking about their religion. Social rules obligate most people to be polite:
listen until the person is finished and not to interrupt. The Witnesses' behavior
has established the rules which you subconsciously feel you must
follow, even though you had no say in the matter. These are the rules
they've set it place - "You will listen to me. This will allow me to use all of my
skills of persuasion and manipulation against you. I am engaging you in an
immediate battle of wills, and you might lose if I am very skilled." Once more,
this is a battle you did not choose to enter.
Now, what if you turn the tables
and change the rules? Try asking, "How long will you take to explain
your religion? Will you give me the same amount of time to talk about my
religion to you? Will you read my pamphlet and consider joining my religion
as you are asking me to join yours?" By doing this, you have taken away
their advantage and established an equal playing field. They probably won't
stick around now that the rules have changed and are no longer in their
favor.
2. A tele-marketer calls you and
asks to complete a 3-minute survey. The rules have been established
immediately. They will ask questions and you will answer. They will take up
your time to benefit their cause. They will gain something, you will gain nothing.
It's a win-lose situation. But what if you reverse the rules and make them
fair? Try asking, "If I have to answer questions about myself can I ask
you some questions about yourself for a survey I am doing?" Do you think
the telemarketer will respond willingly?
Learn to recognize the tactics of
a cult recruiter.
Become suspicious . . .
1. of someone is overly friendly
and/or seems extremely interested in you personally. Remember - genuine
friendships take time to develop. Don't get drawn in by flattery.
2. if a person claims to be "just
like you". This is a common tactic used to disarm mental vigilance. Don't
give too much personal information.
3. when the questions you ask are
answered vaguely (if at all). People who avoid giving direct answers are
usually hiding something.
4. if they won't give you time to
think about what they're offering or find out more about their organization.
5. of a person who is offering
simple, guaranteed solutions to complex, difficult problems (hunger, poverty, evil,
disease etc.).
6. when someone makes grandiose
claims such as "saving mankind", "achieving enlightenment",
"discovering hidden knowledge", "experiencing spiritual ecstasy", or "following
the road to happiness and success".
7. of someone who is always happy,
even when common sense dictates otherwise.
8. when a person claims their
group is "really special" or has "tapped into a special power or force".
9. if they claim you must make
radical changes such as, "You need to destroy the mind to find God", or "You
must throw away your past conditioning in order to free yourself".
Remember: You don't have to be
polite when someone is pushing you to do something you don't feel
comfortable about. You don't owe them anything - you own your time, not them. If they
act disappointed, disgusted or mad, that's their problem, not yours. You can say
"no" and walk away any time you choose.
You have the right . . .
- to doubt
to question and be answered
honestly
to define yourself and your
actions as good or bad
to formulate your own goals and
purpose
to decide how you feel
to decide with whom you spend
time
to maintain a sense of your own
power in any situation
Three Stages to Cult Enslavement
1. DECEPTION: Recruits are duped
into believing that the group is benevolent and will enrich their lives by,
for example, advancing their spirituality or increasing their self-esteem and
security. Through the systematic use of highly manipulative techniques of
influence, recruits, over a period of time, come to commit themselves to the
group's prescribed ways of thinking, feeling and acting; in other
words, they become converts and members.
2. DEPENDENCY: By gradually
isolating members from outside influences, establishing unrealistically high
and guilt-inducing expectations, punishing any expressions of "negativity",
and denigrating independent, critical thinking, the group causes members
to become extremely dependent on the group's compliance-oriented
expressions of love and support.
3. DREAD: Once the members state
of dependency is firmly established, the group's control over thoughts,
feelings and behavior is strengthened by the members' growing dread of losing
the group's psychological support and inculcated predictions of doom -
if you leave, horrible things will happen. Some groups also use the threat of
physical violence to keep members in line.
Destructive Mind Control
Definition: A specific set of
actions which influences how a person thinks, feels and acts with the intention of
suppressing autonomy for the purposes of exploitation.
Five Conditions
- Gaining control over a person's
time.
- Creating a sense of
powerlessness, fear and dependency.
- Manipulating rewards and
punishments.
- Creating a closed system of
logic. (Doubts validate the inadequacy of the victim.)
- Distracting victim to keep
agenda for control hidden.
Techniques of Mind Control present
in Cults
1. Group Pressure and Love
Bombing: Discourages doubts and reinforces the need to belong through use of
child-like games, singing, hugging, touching, excessive smiling or flattery.
2. Environmental Control,
Isolation and Separation: Creates the inability or lack of desire to verify information
provided by the group with credible sources. The purposeful limitation of
communication with the outside world.
3. Thought Stopping Techniques:
Introduces recruits to meditating, chanting and repetitious activities which,
when used excessively, induce a state of high suggestibility or
self-hypnosis. Those who have experienced an induced state of mental detachment may
describe it in mystical terms, ie. "feeling at one with the universe or God".
4. The demand for Purity: The
world is divided between pure and impure; good vs. evil; saved vs. doomed etc.
The group serves the role of judge. Normal urges and tendencies become sinful
and shame is used to control.
5. The Aura of Sacred Silence:
Questioning of basic dogma is prohibited. The cult's laws are absolute and must
be followed without question.
6. Fear and Guilt: Induced by
eliciting confessions to produce intimacy and to reveal fears and secrets. Creates
emotional vulnerability by overt and covert threats as well as alternation of
punishment and reward.
7. Doctrine over person. The value
of the individual member is insignificant compared to the value of the
group.
8. Dispensing of Existence. The
cult decides who has a right to exist and who does not. Those deemed not
acceptable have no human rights in the eyes of the cult. Also, who has the right
to exist in your life.
9. Sleep Deprivation: Encouraged
under the guise of spiritual exercises, necessary training or urgent
projects.
10. Inadequate Nutrition:
Sometimes disguised as special diet to improve health or advance spirituality or as
rituals requiring fasting. Protein deprivation leads to low blood sugar whose symptoms
are mental confusion, vertigo, foggy feeling in the head, physical
weakness. These sensations of floating or detachment from the world can be
misinterpreted as a spiritual experience.
11. Sensory Overload: Forces
acceptance of complex new doctrines, goals and definitions to replace old values
by demanding recruits to assimilate masses of information quickly with little
opportunity for critical examination or reflection.
12. Control of Time: Constant
busyness with cult assignments leaves no time for natural self-expression,
exploration or evolution.
How to recognize when someone has
fallen under cult control.
- Sudden extreme change in
behavior. Different mode of speaking - new words, phrases, pitch, speed etc.
- A breakdown in communication
with old friends.
- Increased secretiveness. Not
free to make choices without checking first.
- A sudden rush of new friends
who are often off-campus and strange.
- Increased talk about how
society is evil.
- Change in personality after a
retreat with a group and talk about a conversion experience or life-changing
realization.
- Inability to engage in
intellectual discussion without parroting the scripture or dogma of some organization.
- Glazed-over look in eyes or
robotic behavior (can be similar to the look of someone addicted to drugs).
Refusal to make an emotional connection - to "be real".
- Abandonment of former personal
goals, hobbies or habits. No time.
- Physical deterioration. Low
grades. No sense of humor.
Some common myths argued by cults
and those uninformed about cultic issues.
1. Only losers and weirdos join
cults. If I check out a group and find normal-looking, friendly, attractive and
articulate members, then it can't be a cult.
"No one in my family would join a
cult!" So you say! The truth is that members of your family would join a club to
teach literacy to the poor, a self-improvement seminar or a bible study group.
Cults masquerade as benign groups. You won't discover the true nature of the
group until it's too late. Generally, very normal people get recruited by another
seemingly normal person who claims to share a common interest.
2. This is an issue of freedom of
choice. People choose to become members freely.
Freedom of choice means you take
time to gather information, weigh pros and cons, then make a reasoned
decision without manipulation and coercion. Cults respond to questions evasively or
with lies. They quickly alienate members from family and friends to eliminate
conflicting opinions or observations from outsiders. A member who expresses doubt is
abused or thrown out.
3. Cult members can leave anytime
they want.
Cults use phobia indoctrination to
train members to mistrust outsiders. They are taught that the cult path is the
only way to salvation and leaving the group will surely lead to failure and/or
death. If members are told what to think and do 24/7, how could any one of them make an
independent decision which opposes the group's agenda?
4. It's an issue of religious
freedom.
The issue isn't about the beliefs
which members hold, but how they came to embrace them. The manipulation,
deception and intimidation used to coerce recruits into a new system of faith is the
problem.
5. He (or She) is an adult. He
says he's happy. What right do I have to judge?
Cult members are taught use
affirmations to convince themselves that they are happy, enlightened, growing, etc.;
whatever the cult wants them to believe. Yet, underneath their trained act, they
are usually exhausted, deprived of normalcy and possibly physically ill from
stress and neglect. Because the connection has been severed from their true feelings,
they play their conditioned tapes like robots. Just because a person claims to feel
wonderful doesn't mean it's the truth.
How can I tell if a group is a
cult?
1. Do the members focus on the
leader with unquestioning commitment and extreme zeal and devotion? Does
the leader maintain an exclusive relationship with God or The
Truth?
2. Does the group discourage or
punish doubt, questioning and dissent?
3. Is the group preoccupied with
bringing in new members or making money? Is it difficult to find out where the
money is going? Is deception and manipulation used fund-raising and
recruiting? Do they have front groups with innocuous, charitable
sounding names?
4. Does the group employ
mind-numbing techniques such as prolonged chanting or meditation, trance
induction, extremely long lectures, exhausting work routines or detailed
interrogations?
5. Does the group claim special,
exalted status for itself, members and leaders? (for example: Is the leader adored
as a celebrity, regarded as next to God - a Messiah, living deity
or prophet? Are the followers the only ones who will be saved?)
6. Does the group claim that your
participation will solve all of your problems, guarantee success, wealth etc.?
7. Is there an arbitrary, perhaps
unreasonable rule structure or rigid, strict, bizarre, demeaning (embarrassing)
rituals required for participation?
8. Does the group employ
Machiavellian logic - the ends justify the means - to rationalize unethical behavior
deemed necessary to achieve their exalted goals? Do they promote an "us vs.
them", "black vs. white" mentality which separates them from the rest of
society?
9. Are group's leaders not
accountable to any authority (as opposed to mainstream clergy, political
leaders and military commanders)? Is the leadership open to new information
from you or other sources, or is everything set in stone?
10. Does the leadership dictate
how followers should think, act and feel including requirements for permission to
date, marry, have children, move etc.? Is diet controlled?
11. Does the group recommend or
require members to cut ties to family, friends, and pre-group personal goals or
interests?
12. Are members encouraged to live
with or socialize exclusively with other members? Do they seem to be
competing for recognition and "brownie points"?
13. Is the power of positive
thinking or suggestion a frequent tool to motivate or control? Are members demeaned,
judged, insulted, humiliated or disciplined irrationally? Is part of the
doctrine self-defamation (you are no good)? Are fear and paranoia taught or encouraged?
14. Are there cookie-cutter
solutions to members' problems? Does the group take credit for and successes and
blame members' inadequacy for failures? Does the group attribute a
spiritual reason to every event in your life, and also to symptoms in your body?
15. Are members exploited
financially, physically or emotionally? Is there inappropriate sexual activity or
physical abuse (which may include victimizing children)?
16. Are advancing the goals of the
group more important than the well-being of its members?
Questions you should ask before
agreeing to participate in a retreat or other off-campus group-led event.
1. Is your organization known by
any other name?
2. Who is the leader?
3. Are you a student here? Can you
give me the names of other students who have been to one of your retreats?
4. Is there another way to get
there besides your bus? If I decide I want to leave before the seminar is over,
how can I get back to campus?
5. Does your group operate on
other college campuses? Which ones?
6. How does your group get its
funding?
7. Could I have the names and
phone numbers of some students who have been members of your group and
left?
The more evasive the answers to
these questions, the more likely that the group is destructive and has much to hide.
Ten Steps to Critical Thinking
1. Recognize DEMAND
CHARACTERISTICS: These are situations which use social pressure to compel you to
act or respond in a specific way, removing your free choice.
2. Remember you have the right to
SAY "NO".
3. Recognize FALSE DILEMMAS: If
you are presented with two possible choices, you can add "none of the
above" to the list.
4. You have the right to SLEEP ON
IT. Recognize pressure to decide quickly. Don't make a decision under
duress.
5. Suspect a HIDDEN AGENDA.
Everything they are saying sounds true and good, but what are they leaving
out? and why?
6. Recognize FAULTY LOGIC. For
example: A causal fallacy - just because event "A" preceded event "B",
doesn't mean "A" caused "B".
7. Know WHAT BELIEF a person
REPRESENTS. Ask blunt questions and don't accept vague answers.
8. Recognize FLATTERY. It is a
popular tool for manipulation.
9. CHALLENGE the AUTHORITY's
claims. Assert yourself and ask questions.
10. RETAIN your SELF-WORTH. You
have the right to be who you are, even if it's different from the rest of
the crowd.
11. Remember that if it seems TOO
GOOD TO BE TRUE, it probably is!
Remember ....
RE: self-help and therapy groups:
A healthy therapy reconnects you with your own sense of destiny, purpose
and value. It does not insert a new set of morals, spiritual beliefs and
goals. It's goal is to bring you back to yourself, the greater you. You are not a robot
to be reprogrammed.
RE: political or charitable
groups: The point of joining a group with a common mission (UWSA, raising money for a
charity, a sports team, a corporation) is that the members join forces so that
they can all (as can the larger circle in the world) benefit from co-operating,
dividing duties and sharing individuals' unique strengths and talents.
In a group with a laudable mission
as a front the only benefactors are the people who set up the scheme or
who are at the top of the hierarchy. The workers are exploited, not fairly
compensated for their input and in the end prevented from developing themselves, pursing
their natural interests and talents and sometimes stripped of all of their resources
and then abandoned when they no longer have anything to offer.
Vulnerable Characteristics
People are vulnerable to
manipulation if they:
- Are naive, gullible and
unassertive.
- Have low self-esteem or
standards for self. Lack self-confidence.
- Are a peace-keeper at all
costs.
- Have an intense need for
attention or recognition.
- Can become worshipful of
others.
- Are looking to be led.
- Lack skills in logic and
critical thinking.
- Are under stress.
- Have a compulsive personality.
- Are in a transition in their
lives or have recently had a traumatic experience. (death of a loved one, personal
illness, break-up of relationship, relocation, emotional isolation, homelessness,
college student)
- Are alienated from family. Lack
an emotional support system.
- Have an emotionally unstable background.
- Tend toward dependency and make
pleasing others a priority.
- Are between the ages of 18 and
30.
- Are idealistic.
- Are looking for quick solutions
to their problems.
- Are impressed by deep thoughts
and lofty concepts.
- Are disillusioned with the
world or their culture.
- Have an unfulfilled desire for
spiritual meaning and purpose in life.
- Are attracted to trance-like
states of mind.
- Can tolerate double standards
and contradictions.
- Have no frame of reference for
moral behavior.
- Have self-destructive habits,
self-abusive thoughts, or are trapped by addiction.
- Lack knowledge about methods of
deception.
- Are unaware how groups can
manipulate people.
- Are unaware of how the mind and
body can affect each other.
- Can be manipulated by the power
of suggestion.
- Give great credibility to what
feels good or right.
BEYOND BAD BEHAVIOR . . . THE
SOCIOPATHIC CULT LEADER
A "sociopath" is defined as one
who feels no moral obligation whatsoever.
- Risk or harm others with no
remorse - EVIL.
- Never comes clean for a crime
(against self or other). Simply changes behavior after exposure. NO GUILT;
NO RESTITUTION
- Rationalize destructive
behavior.
- Outlook is Machiavellian. (The
ends justify the means.)
- Uncooperative, unreasonable,
self-serving attitude.
- Self-centered view of the world
and tremendous insecurity which they never grow out of.
- Control others' behavior to
please/serve them.
- Egotistical. Refuse to
self-examine. Lack of humility.
- No one else's opinion has any
validity.
- Never put themselves in the
other person's shoes.
- Driven and motivated by
fantasy. Never learn from their mistakes.
- Make sure that you never
discuss their weaknesses.
- Skilled manipulator and
convincing actor. Chameleon-like behavior.
- Talk is filled with illogical
justifications - babble.
- Fight Dirty
- table-turning (accuse you of
what they're doing)
- finger-pointing (it's always
all your fault)
- answer a different question
- never give in
- avoid, deny, change the
subject
- false accusations keep you
always on the defensive
- Their allegiance is to being
right/winning, not to the truth or fairness.
- Have no problem lying,
manipulating, exploiting or stealing.
- Crave attention and
recognition, not love and intimacy.
- Cold, empty, shark's eyes.
PERSONAL RULES OF AN
ABUSER/EXPLOITER
1. What's mine is mine; what's
yours is mine.
2. I own you. Your purpose in life
is to please me, flatter me and be my obedient serf. Your only loyalty
is to me.
3. You are no good . . . but I,
from the goodness of my heart, put up with you anyway. And you don't even
appreciate me!!
4. You must be meek and obedient,
never dissatisfied. One hint of criticism and you're out (or dead).
5. You must constantly ask my
permission to exist.
6. Anyone who criticizes me is
automatically wrong.
7. You must confess your sins to
me so I can use them as weapons against you later.
8. I don't have to practice what I
preach, but you do.
9. I will make sure that you are
so dependent on me that you will never be able to leave.
Cult's arsenal of weapons
1. Our biologically programmed
survival instinct directs us to put the group's needs above our individual needs
(tribal consciousness). Vulnerability to embrace a sense of obligation to
the group.
2. We all possess basic human
needs: family, sense of belonging, specialness, unconditional love, structure,
sense of control. Our personal circumstances may engender unfulfilled holes in
our lives. The cult will create the illusion or promise that emotional needs will
be met.
3. Due to our particular
psychological insecurities, most of us can be manipulated to experience Fear,
Obligation and Guilt, the tools of an Emotional Blackmailer. Cults use
some form of Emotional Blackmail to keep us in line.
4. Social programming imprints our
minds with: obligation to play acceptable roles, inability to assert
ourselves or challenge authority, desire for approval, fear of disapproval and
abandonment (don't make waves), vulnerability to peer pressure (Milgram's shock
experiment - 65% obedience), fear of making a mistake or appearing
incompetent. Cults rely on our social weaknesses to recruit and maintain our
cooperation.
5. There is a part of many of us
which can become an arrogant know-it-all. It resists self-examination, enjoys
feeling superior to others, craves attention and praise, believes in its
omnipotence (manifest destiny), is lazy (resists struggle and legitimate work) and
seeks a free ride (greed). Cults fill these immature needs.
6. A hypnotic state of increased
suggestibility (alpha brain-wave) can be induced in any person in a variety
of ways. Our bodies are machines which respond to rhythmic sound and
light at specific frequencies and we may be manipulated covertly by a skilled
practitioner. A state of reduced stress or emotional release feels good and
may even convince us we are having a "spiritual experience".
Brainwashing begins with the "Power of Suggestion".
7. Suggestibility, compliance and
helplessness may be induced by impairing the well-being of our bodies with
fatigue, nervous system overload, unbalanced sugar metabolism, adrenal gland
over-exertion from perpetual fear-induced "fight/flight response".
8. We adopt new habits from
repeated stimulation and small increments of reward/punishment conditioning.
Once new neural pathways are created in the brain, it is difficult and
painful to change them.
9. Our souls crave understanding
of the invisible world (spiritual enlightenment). Cults may seduce the spiritually
undeveloped with false doctrines and twisted truth.
10. Our high schools should have,
but never offered a course entitled Manipulation Techniques: What the
Con-Man doesn't want you to know. Therefore, most of us are
vulnerable to: faulty analogy, causal fallacy, double-talk, nominalization
(generalization allows you to paint your own canvas), especially when delivered
with confidence. The Law of Reciprocity or Machiavellian Logic may be also
be twisted.
11. We respond readily to what
feels right (75+% of communication is non-verbal) (subjective reality)
rather than employing the "scientific method" of analysis (objective reality). In
addition many of us are unskilled at discerning an evil intention behind a
seductive mask.
12. Many of us never learned the
difference between conditional and unconditional love.
Phobia Indoctrination:
Definition: A persistent,
irrational fear of an object or situation.
The cue triggers a closed cycle of
fearful images, emotions and thoughts. The body's fight/flight response is
triggered causing panic (racing heart, shortness of breath, dry mouth, cold, clammy
hands and nausea.
Most common coping mechanism:
avoid the trigger at all costs. examples (fear of public speaking,
heights, snakes, dark, drowning)
Methods of installation
1. Induce an altered state of
consciousness. (information enters with no critical evaluation)
2. Make direct statements and
speak with authority and confidence.
3. Make indirect statements which
allow you to fill in the blank with your own worst fears.
4. Fabricate stories or use causal
fallacy to reinforce your point.
5. Use existing fears as threats.
(If you leave your children will hate you.)
The Battle for your Mind
- The
Birth of Conversion
"Conversion" (conditioned
acceptance of an idea or belief) may be interpreted as a euphemism Brainwashing - create
conditions that wipe the brain slate clean so that the mind accepts new programming.
1. Work on the emotions until they
reach an abnormal level of intensity. (fear, anger, excitement or nervous
tension)
2. Introduce a sustained,
repetitive beat (45-72 beats per minute - close to a human heart rate). (gospel music,
tribal drums, vibration in lighting levels) This generates an eyes-open
altered state of consciousness - the "alpha" brain state - in a large
percentage of people. In this relaxed, alpha state, one is 25 times more suggestible than
in alert "beta" brain state of normal consciousness. In fact,
suggestions are absorbed as commands to be acted upon accordingly (as long as they
don't conflict with the primary morality of the individual). Watch for signs
of trance - relaxed body and slightly dilated pupils.
3. Speak with a "voice roll" - the
patterned, paced style used by hypnotists to induce trance. Sounds as if the
speaker is talking to the beat of a metronome (45-60 beats per minute).
4. Initiate "catharsis" - the
purging of repressed emotion. (eg. when a revival preacher touches congregants on
the head and they cry out and fall backwards)
5. The brain-slate is temporarily
wiped clean and new suggestions may be implanted, especially if they
promise safety, rightness and rewards.
Dramatization of Cult
Recruiter's Manipulation Tactics
SCRIPT #1 (WHERE THE STUDENT
RESPONDS TO THE RECRUITER)
This typical conversation between
a cult recruiter named Jennifer and her selected target (A student named John who
is seated alone at a table, reading a book).
Takes place in a student lounge.
Jennifer: (looking over the
student's shoulder and noting the book's title) Hey, I read that book last year. It's
interesting, but tough to get through. I bet you have a lot of work. Sometimes the
pressure can really get to you.
John: Yeah, I'm swamped. Seems
like I've been living in the library for the past month!
Jennifer: School can sure be hard
to deal with sometimes.
John: You got that right!
Jennifer: (sits down at the table)
I'm Jennifer. What's your name?
John: John
Jennifer: Are you a freshman,
John?
John: Yes.
Jennifer: Welcome to our school.
What state are you from?
John: New York.
Jennifer: Wow, I'm from Ohio. I
bet New York is really exciting.
John: It can be. Especially the
city. There's so much to do.
Jennifer: What is your favorite
thing to do, John? Were you active in any groups while you were in high school, you
know, through the church or local politics?
John: Yes, my whole family was
very involved in our church. We had a fund raiser every year for the hungry in our
community.
Jennifer: Wow, John, that's great.
It sounds like you really care about people and want to make a difference for
those less fortunate.
John: It always made me feel good.
I kind of miss those times.
Jennifer: It sounds like you
shared a lot of good spirit with others. Helping is one of the best ways I know to feel good
about yourself. You know, the world could use a lot more people like you. There is
so much pain and injustice in this world we live in.
John: I know what you mean.
Jennifer: You know, John, I am a
member of a student organization called "Coalition for World Peace". We
meet once a week and discuss some of the big problems our world faces. We
brainstorm about how we, as motivated citizens, can do something to make a difference.
We get involved in fund-raising, mentoring and educational seminars. I bet you
would fit right in, John. We could certainly use an experienced person like you. In
fact, we're meeting tonight, in about an hour, across campus. How would you like
to come and see what we're all about?
John: I'm kind of busy tonight. My
parents are really pressuring me to get good grades. They want me to get a job,
be a big success. You know? And I have three papers due in the next few weeks.
It sounds great, but maybe some other time.
Jennifer: Come on John. So many
people are suffering. Are you really saying you'd rather go out and make money than
help? Think of all the kids who can't even go to college, who spend their lives
worrying about where their next meal is coming from. We're the lucky ones. We
have so many great opportunities to develop ourselves, and also to give back
to those less fortunate. The meeting isn't very long and you'll still have plenty of
time to finish those papers. In fact, I think a few people there have taken this
course. I bet they could give you some hints on how to get a better grade. Just give
it one shot, John. You won't be disappointed.
John: Well.... I'm not sure.
Jennifer: You know, we talk for
awhile on some important issues, you could even bring up some of your own, and
then we order pizza and hang out. You might even meet some new friends. I bet you
need a break, John, after all of your studying. Come on. I'll stop back in half an
hour and we can go together. I'd really like to get to know you better too. You seem
very nice.
John: Well, I guess I could drop
the books for a few hours. It does kind of sound like fun. OK, I'll see you soon.
Jennifer: (winking) See ya.
SCRIPT #2 (WHERE THE STUDENT
RESISTS THE RECRUITER)
Jennifer: (looking over the
student's shoulder and noting the book's title) Hey, I read that book last year. It's
interesting, but tough to get through. I bet you have a lot of work. Sometimes the
pressure can really get to you.
John: Yeah, I'm swamped.
Jennifer: School can sure be hard
to deal with sometimes.
John: Yes, it can be a lot of
work. (He is polite but his eyes return immediately to his book.)
Jennifer: (sits down at the table)
I'm Jennifer. What's your name?
John: John. (looks uncomfortable
because he doesn't want to be disturbed)
Jennifer: Are you a freshman,
John?
John: Yes. (answers hesitantly)
Jennifer: Welcome to our school.
What state are you from?
John: I'm from New York.
Jennifer: Wow, I'm from Ohio. I
bet New York is really exciting.
John: It can be. (begins to wonder
why this person wants so much to talk to him)
Jennifer: What is your favorite
thing to do, John? Were you active in any groups while you were in high school, you
know, through the church or local politics?
John: Yes, my whole family was
very involved in our church. We had a fund raiser every year for the hungry in our
community.
Jennifer: Wow, John, that's great.
It sounds like you really care about people and want to make a difference for
those less fortunate.
John: It always made me feel good.
I kind of miss those times.
Jennifer: It sounds like you
shared a lot of good spirit with your fellow church members. Helping others is one of
the best ways I know to feel good about yourself. You know, the world
could use a lot more people like you. There is so much pain and injustice in this
world we live in.
John: Yes, that's true.
Jennifer: You know, John, I am a
member of a student organization called "Coalition for World Peace". We
meet once a week and discuss some of the big problems our world faces. We
brainstorm about how we, as motivated citizens, can do something to make a difference.
We get involved in fund-raising, mentoring and educational seminars. I bet you
would fit right in, John. We could certainly use a person like you. In fact, we're
meeting in about an hour, across campus. How would you like to come and see
what we're all about?
John: I'm kind of busy tonight. My
parents are really pressuring me to get good grades. They want me to get a job,
be a big success. You know? And I have three papers due in a few weeks. It
sounds interesting, but maybe some other time. If you have a phone number to call
for the next meeting time, I'll write it down.
Jennifer: Come on John. So many
people are suffering. Are you really saying you'd rather go out and make money than
help? Think of all the kids who can't even go to college, who spend their lives
worrying about where their next meal is coming from. We're the lucky ones. We
have so many great opportunities to develop ourselves, and also to give back
to those less fortunate than ourselves. Why don't you just...
John: (cutting her off - resenting
the pressure) I don't think it's an either/or situation. I can help people in
lots of ways and still have a good career. I don't mind donating money or doing volunteer
work in my spare time. But right now, I need to study.
Jennifer: (sensing resistance and
changing subject) You know, we always have a party afterwards. It's a lot of
fun and good food too. I'd really like to get to know you better, John. (pausing and
looking into his eyes flirtatiously)
John: (resisting the seductive
pitch) Well, thanks for inviting me, but tonight's just not good. I need to hit the books
and stay there. Maybe some other time. It was nice meeting you and now I really
have to get back to my studies. (averts eyes and tunes her out)
Obedience to Authority
Some system of authority is
required in order for any social group to function, therefore we are trained
to be obedient to authority. In the late 1960's Stanley Milgram, a Yale University
psychology professor, constructed an experiment to measure the degree
of obedience in a cross-section of population. His universally accepted moral premise
was that - One should not inflict suffering on a helpless and innocent person. He
tested the conviction behind this premise against the power behind our sense of
obligation to be obedient to authority. The experimental set-up included
three people: a subject who played the role of "teacher", a scientist (the
authority), and a second subject - really an actor who acted as the "learner".
The teacher sat in front of a
board with approx. 20 switches indicating shock levels from mild (15 volts) to
severe (450 volts). He was given a sample shock at the mild level, and then
instructed to repeat a series of words to the learner which the learner was required repeat
back correctly. When the learner made a mistake, the teacher was supposed to
administer a shock (as punishment). Each successive error required a shock of the next
higher level. The shock switches at the severe end were labelled "danger severe
shock".
In reality the learner was an
actor and wasn't receiving any shocks, but the teacher believed that he was
receiving the shock. As the experiment proceeded, the
learner made errors on purpose. As the shock levels increased, the
learner began to complain and eventually to beg the teacher not to administer the
shocks anymore. He screamed and cried, sometimes even stating that he felt he was
about to have a heart attack from the pain. However, if and when the teacher
hesitated about continuing the process, the authority - the scientist in a
white coat, commanded him to continue despite the learner's pleas for mercy. "The
experiment must continue to completion," the teacher was told.
I hope you will all be horrified
to learn that 65% of the subjects (over 200 were tested) completed the
experiment and administered what they believed were real shocks all the way up to 450
volts labelled "danger severe shock". In fact, 100% went as far as 135 volts
which was labelled as "strong shock". And what makes it even worse is that they
could not stand up to the authority figure even though this particular authority
had no leverage over them. There was no threat of physical or other retaliation for
disobedience. No personal, emotional issues to confront. They were not in
Hitler's Germany during World War II where their lives were at stake if they refused to
follow the leader's orders. The teacher had absolutely nothing to lose in
return for rescuing the learner! The worst that could have happened had they defied the
process was the possible loss of the $4 payment they were promised for
participation. How effective is our social training, how deep is our commitment to the
unspoken social contract that we are to be obedient to the authority, how
profound is our fear of social rejection that we would continue to torture an
innocent person rather than risk disapproval? What does that say about our capacity
to promote our innate humanity rather than capitulating to social training?
Now I'm sure you're all thinking
that you would be different and do the right thing - have the guts to stand up
to the scientist-experimenter and refuse to continue the experiment, but if
you found yourself in that social war-zone you might discover you're weaker than
you think! Anyway, this should give you an idea of the powerful hold our social
programming has on most people. We call it the "Sheep Factor". People are trained
to be followers - very few of them ever break that training and live by
following their own inner morality and intuition rather than under the influence of external
social and individual authoritarian powers. Cults use a person's vulnerability to
authority to influence and cajole new recruits into doing things they would rather not do.
Here are some common examples
where authority is established immediately and rules outlined to be followed:
school classroom, doctor's office, theater, police station, hospital... in
fact any institution or organized social group.
The Decognition Process - making
the mind unwilling or unable to think rationally or construct logical arguments.
1. Alertness Reduction: Cause the
nervous system to malfunction through low blood sugar levels (removing
protein from diet) and inadequate sleep.
2. Programmed Confusion: Mentally
assault someone in a state of reduced alertness. Deluge of new
information, lectures, discussions groups and assignments. Eventually reality
and fantasy may merge and perverted logic is likely to be accepted.
3. Thought Stopping: Adopt
techniques which cause the mind to go flat. An altered state of consciousness
achieved by focusing on something simple. Continued use brings feelings of
elation and eventually hallucination. Three primary techniques include:
marching (rhythmic beat), meditation and chanting.
Sustained practice of thought
stopping can bring a person to a point where, in a fixed alpha brain state, all
thought ceases and takeover is complete. This empty-headed person/robot/puppet will
now only do as "they are told" and has become the ideal rank and file cult
member. The cult will tell them that they have achieved "nirvana" or "enlightenment" but
this euphoric state of "no thoughts" is simply a predictable physiological event
which results from perpetual self-hypnosis.
Steven Hassan's "BITE" model for
Mind Control
(Behavior, Information, Thought
and Emotion)
1. Behavior:
- Physical Reality: where, how
and with whom you associate; clothing, hairstyle etc.; eating and
drinking; sleep; money; leisure time
- Ask permission for decisions
- Report thoughts, feelings and
actions to authority
- Rewards and punishments
(behavior modification techniques)
- Creativity, individuality
discouraged
- Rigid rules and regulations
2. Information:
- Lying or distorting information
- Spying
- Forced confessions used as
weapons
- Extensive use of propaganda
- Forbidding access to
contradictory sources of information
3. Thought Control:
- Doctrine becomes map of reality
- Us vs. Them thinking
- Loaded language (buzz words or
thought terminating cliches)
- Only proper thoughts encouraged
(no challenges accepted)
- Use of hypnotism to produce
altered states (control of blood sugar levels)
- Implantation of false memories
- Thought stopping (shuts down
reality testing: denial, rationalization,
- justification, wishful thinking,
chanting, meditating, singing, humming)
- Rejection of rational analysis,
critical thinking and constructive criticism.
- No alternative belief system
allowed.
4. Emotional:
- Use of guilt (all problems are
your fault)
- Use of fear (disapproval,
abandonment, withdrawal of money etc. physical threat)
- Suppression of natural
creativity or expression of spirit
- Irrational and inconsistent
punishments
- Phobia Indoctrination: (no
happiness, fulfillment or safety outside of situation; terrible consequences
for leaving; fear of rejection by family, friends; never a legitimate reason
to leave - no graduation)
A particularly dangerous cult may:
1. Conceal criminal acts or
backgrounds of the leaders.
2. Approve of destroying enemies
(murder).
3. Sexually seduce subjects as a
means of spiritual advancement. Use sexual abuse as a means of control.
4. Regress subjects to a
child-like state of dependency and total obedience. Use physical or mental punishment for
subjects who stray.
5. Insist that they and they alone
are right and have all the answers.
6. Inculcate the fear that leaving
the group or disobeying the leaders will cause disease, insanity, death or
eternal damnation to self or loved ones, in essence locking them in a psychological
prison.
7. Create extreme and bizarre
accusations against parents or others in order to alienate member from family and
emotional support system.
8. Discourage or disallow
medication attention even if ailment is life-threatening.
9. Physically detain or kidnap
subjects to keep them from leaving group.
10. Stockpile weapons and maintain
guarded premises to keep outsiders away.
11. Drive followers to madness or
suicide.
12. Murder dissenters or perceived
enemies. Commit mass murder or destruction.
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